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If you not happy with me , press the red cross on top and your mum will fly .
Saturday, 30 July 2011 @ 17:10
Being in love with somebody who doesn't love you can be a heartbreaking experience. Follow these steps to move past the pain and get on with your life.
1) Accept the fact that she doesn't feel the same way about you. If you continue to believe that there is a chance she will eventually love you, you will never move on.
2)Understand the reasons why she doesn't feel the same way. Understanding the reasons for the unrequited love will help you to move past the situation and get over her.
3)Stay positive. Don't let this situation cause you to have bitter feelings toward finding someone who loves you. It will lead you toward becoming a bitter and unhappy person.
4)Get your mind off of her. Spend more time with friends and family, and surround yourself with those who love and care about you.
5)Keep busy. Throw yourself into your work or hobbies. If you don't have any hobbies there are plenty to choose from so it won't be difficult finding one.
6)Focus on your future. Nobody has ever moved forward by constantly looking back. Focusing on your future will make you take your focus off her.
7)Remind yourself of your good qualities. Just because one person does not love you does not mean you are not a good person. Remind yourself of that as often as necessary.
8)Go out on dates. It may be difficult at first because your heart may still belong to her but the worst that could happen is that you meet someone you like to hang out with. You never know, you may meet someone you really like that feels the same way about you.
9)Appreciate yourself. Realize that you don't need anyone to validate you and that you are still the wonderful person you were before the breakup. Remind yourself that most relationships don't work out and that your breakup isn't unusual. Work on gaining independence so that you can be just as happy alone as when you're in a relationship. That will make you more attractive.
10)If you've been left before, think of how you overcame that pain. You did it once, you can do it again.
11)Don't feed the monster. After a week or two of grief, stop yourself from indulging conversations about your lost love or from obtaining information about them. In time, your grief will fade on its own, provided you let it.
12)Ask yourself, "Why would I want to be with anyone who doesn't love me back?" You deserve better. You may discover you are repeating a pathology from your childhood, clinging to someone who doesn't appreciate you in an effort to win the approval you could not get from your parents. Seek professional help to dig deeper if you suspect this is true.
Ehow contributor ,How to deal with unrequited love , taken on 30th july 2011 on http://www.ehow.com/how_2054274_deal-unrequited-lovedeal-unrequited-love.html
My body clock is in a huge mess right now .
Monday, 25 July 2011 @ 08:25
I cut my hair . now , uber short . I am a secondary schoool kid !
Sunday, 24 July 2011 @ 20:12
Its very easy when u hurt someone and you say IM SORRY but ,
Its very hard when u are hurt by someone and you say IM FINE.
Can i know everything about you ?
Thursday, 21 July 2011 @ 20:54
I might not be the one playing it but this is for you .
By definition , Texting refers to the exchange of brief written text messages between fixed-line phone or mobile phone and fixed or portable devices over a network. Texting is a way of communication and boy , It does wonders . Some times , a morning text message in your phone might carve a smile :D
Today is friday . I woke up to a very heavy rain . Lets not be disappointed shall we ? we might see a rainbow after the rain . Smile :D
Wednesday was a very cheerful day for me :D but certain things dont last right ? psst , i watched Harry Potter , alone :( . My friends hanged out at my crib from 6 until 11 PM .
Allergies , i cant believe that my friend , have an allergy to stingrays . People who dont eat fishes , eat stingray . why ? the texture and taste is much different and the fishy smell is pretty much non-existent. OMG , i crave for BBQ stingray now :)
We are living in a society that demands perfection . I am so scared of reality .
Seringkali hati bertanya
Tiap saat kita bersama
Sampai bilaku harus memendam rasa
Tak pernah aku merasai
Bibir terkunci
Jiwa bergelora rasa tak percaya
Adakah ku bermimpi
Mimpi di siang hari
Dirimu... telah lama ku nantikan
Wajah yang bermain
Di mimpi-mimpiku
Hidupku.. kini bagaikan penjara
Tanpamu di sisi tak bermakna oh..oh..
Mungkinkah akan terjadi
Dirimu aku miliki
Berilah tanda kepastianmu
Namun jika tak tercapai
Harapanku
Selama hayat dirimu tetapku sanjungi
Even the strongest person can be drawn to tears or heart break from a simple ‘Goodbye’ :((
Sunday, 17 July 2011 @ 00:55
Ohkay , i know my blog is filled with spider webs . bleargh . let me brush it off . . *sweeps*
I am so shagged . Friday morning lecture was dull , as always . Lecturer will give a lame joke during the break and i will be the only one laughing , Sarcasm much . Skip and Jog after classes followed through with a friend's BBQ .Happy Birthday Syahfiqah . Some of those secfour08 came and it was fun , meeting them . Its been ages though .
I think i like you , do you ?
I spent my 2 nights , staying awake . I think i need some sleep though .
p/s : i sucks at bowling .
Thursday, 14 July 2011 @ 09:13
Kongsi kongsi mari bicara,
Kongsi pendapat dan juga idea,
Masuk Kongsi tiada keluar,
Biar Kongsi jadi Kongsi kita duduk diam.
Naik bukit , turun bukit,
Gua dah lama tengok wayang , tak perlu minta tiket,
Dan silakan picit telefon panggil~lah sedozen,
Gua pun teringin nak tengok lu punya sepuluh sen
Alamak lu kredit pun takde , terpaksa tembak
Tak guna lu bawak pisau ke peraduan menembak,
Tak guna ada bola kalau tak reti sepak,
Tak guna ada jalan kalau destinasi tak nampak,
Tak guna jadi gangster kalau tiada wang,
Gua tetap di jalanan tapi gua usahawan,
Gua bursa sahamkan setiap perniagaan,
Dan setiap gerak geri , pelan harus dipersiapkan,
Jangan kita mudah lupa , kita bukan selamanya muda
Jadi kerahkan tenaga , pergunakan usia,
Bila jumpa orang lama , jangan malu bersoal,
Jika mahu kunci kuasa , harus ada modal,
Ada cara duduk , ada cara berdiri,
tangkap orang menyamar , tangkap orang menyanyi,
tangkap orang melalak , tangkap budak berlagak,
tangkap mulut berbuih , berbual lepas cakap,
tangkap budak kosong bogel dan tak pakai baju,
ramai sangat kelkatu , nak mendekati lampu,
teringin hendak menyinar naik sheikh , tapi tiada dinar,
bila kena pegang gegar sikit , air mata berlinang,
Bukan nak jadi brader , gua nak jadi orang berada,
supaya dapat menjaga setiap ahli keluarga,
bukan duniawi semata emas putih permata,
kadang kala aku rabun , pakaikan cermin mata,
Tuhan berikan petanda , supaya ku selamat di sana,
dan selamat di sini , setiap usaha diberkati,
budak tersusun rapi , gerak cara koperasi,
biar mereka jadi besar , Kongsi kami gergasi...
Tuesday, 12 July 2011 @ 09:41
I am carving a smile eventhough i am broken inside .
I am sick , doa for me . Thanks ;)
I need someone to be here for me . Anyone ?
Monday, 11 July 2011 @ 23:41
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains because the average man can see better than he can think.
I agree much on this :D
Sunday, 10 July 2011 @ 02:15
Hey yaww , a short post ,
do ponder the difference between school and life .
In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test.
In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
Thank You .
Conversation killer ~
Thursday, 7 July 2011 @ 02:39
It has been a long hiatus , not that long though . Have you ever felt the feeling of doing something wrong but you cant quit because you have went too far ? Its like facing a cave , you shouldnt enter it but unfortunately , you went it and you cant go back cos u're too deep inside ? Hence , here i am standing , undecided whether i should go on and find the next exit ? or should i turn back , leaving the treasures on what i might find deep inside the cage ?
The Grass is Greener on the other side , am i right ?
I am someone , who tries hard to be somebody , i tried everything . Can i ask you a question ? is it better to be jack of all trades but king of none ? or is it better to be king of a trade ?
This thought has been lingering on my mind aeons ago . I feel so stupid , the inability to deciphere this . argh .
i think u're the one for me , but am i the one for you ? its like being on a see saw , try sitting on the see saw alone , its just wont work . will you come here and play the see saw with me ?
Flaws , all humans have flaws . #justsaying .
Wednesday, 6 July 2011 @ 04:25
Great , Hey people , i did not perm my hair . This curly thing on my head is my actual hair . i rebonded it last year . Please dont ask me why i "perm" my hair . Thank You :D
Tuesday, 5 July 2011 @ 08:41
A list of ghost's favourites food !
While you scream at your girl,there's a guy wishing he could whisper in her ear.
While you humiliate, offend & insult her,there's a guy who wishes he could flirt & remind her how beautiful she is.
While you hurt her,there's a guy wishing he could take her pain away
Can i be that guy ?
Burp , I was so so hungry i could ate a cow . I spent my lunch at the gym :D . Mom cooked Ayam lemak cili padi . Is it really that good or am i super hungry ? bleargh .
Dilemmas , ethical ?
Monday, 4 July 2011 @ 22:34
Does age matter , im in sixths and sevens , can i change my mentality ?
aku tak tahu apa yang ku rasakan
dalam hatiku saat pertama kali
lihat dirimu, melihatmu
seluruh tubuhku terpaku dan membisu
detak jantungku berdebar tak menentu
sepertinya aku tak ingin berlalu
berikan cintamu juga sayangmu
percaya padaku ku kan menjagamu
hingga waktu menjemputku
ku berikan cintaku juga sayangku
percaya padaku ku kan menjagamu
hingga waktu menjemputku
saat ku tahu kau akan pergi jauh
izinkan aku tuk selalu menantimu
untuk katakan ku ingin dirimu (ingin dirimu)
agar kau tahu betapa ku terlalu
mencintaimu aku akan menunggu
hingga dirimu kembali untukku
tolonglah aku bagaimana diriku
ungkapkan itu rasa yang membelenggu
dalam hatiku ku cinta padamu
Do you believe in love at first sight?I'm sure it happens every day.
But we're too young to know what love is.
At least that's what some people say.
But then, they can't see inside our minds.
And they just can't know how we feel.
But I believe in love at first sight.
I know my love for you is real.
I have loved you since the day we met,
Ever since I laid my eyes on you.
And for me, it was love at first sight.
I hope it was the same for you.
And now I'm asking you to be mine,
To come and spend your life with me.
Be my girl, and I'll give you my world,
And all my love eternally.
I Love You.
Sunday, 3 July 2011 @ 18:00
Unpredictable You .
Alhamdulillah , ive officially made the list of best debators :D
Saturday, 2 July 2011 @ 17:11
Yoojin Talkbox-ed me . HAHA , JKJK . A mysterious talkbox girl :D
Winter Sonata was a very very very very touching story , Yes , I cried . Bleargh . I did what i had to do , im done with it . I will try learning the Piano :)
I am a man searching for answers . I need a shoulder to lean on , I am feeling an all time low and i need someone to be there for me , please :(
Friday, 1 July 2011 @ 23:00
I shouldnt be doing this , i will get hurt .
there was once a circus show in town. and everyone was amazed at this clown who did marvellous tricks..
he fought a lion..
rode his unicycle and juggled..
he even did somersaults on it!
everyone was impressed and applauded at his skills..
right then, he took his unicycle and climbed the ladder high to perform the last stunt - riding a unicycle, on a rope to the other side!
Alas! he succeeded! and everyone was impressed!
Now, he began to do the same thing, but with a weight on his back; and again he managed to pull it off!
The clown asked, "Do you want to see me do it again??"
The crowd cheered.
Then, the clown asked, "now who wants to ride on my back while i do it again??"
The crowd fell silent.
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there is a big difference between believe and faith.
believing, is like the crowd, cheering on him, believing that he COULD do the stunt.
having faith, is putting yourself at his hands.
You may believe in Allah, but having faith in Him is a whole new level.
May Allah guide us.
Because . . I love you .